Ten days..........Ten days of attitude and fussing about dumb shit.Ten days of eating leftovers and having to pretend that I want more.Ten days of having to take my kids out of the house because Gargamel ALWAYS seems to have a damn cycle.Ten days of limited rum/vodka, because Gargamom-in-law wants to judge me because I'm a … Continue reading Christmas Vacation….Part 6
Christmas Day started out the same way it always does. The kids got up excited, ready to open all of their gifts that Daddy and Garga-claus had left for them. Of course, my boys are fully aware that Santa Claus looks like me. And they play the roll for their mother, so she can still … Continue reading Christmas Vacation….Part 5
A bit of a rough spell right now. As I struggle with the fact that several parts of my life at times seem to be pretty fucked up, I understand that I am quite blessed to have other things that bring me so much happiness and satisfaction. While my marriage has gone completely downhill, I … Continue reading Christmas Vacation…..Part 4
So here I am, away from my home, across the country, getting ready to "enjoy" the holidays with Gargamel's family. The closer we get to Christmas, the more we are receiving visitors who are coming by to say hello, see the kids, and just be nosey...How are the kids? Has Gargamel gotten fat? Are we … Continue reading Christmas Vacation…..Part 3 (Leave Me Da Fukk Alone…..)
Okay.......gonna be brief. A bit tired from all of the running through the airport and greeting all of the folks that just found out that we've arrived in Dallas. The flight here was uneventful. My kids are used to traveling, so of course, there were no issues with retarded shit on the plane. In fact, … Continue reading Christmas Vacation…..Part 2
So this is going to be an interesting holiday season. Things at home haven't changed. I stay to myself and focus on my youngins. This time of year is especially interesting, because we are usually together, whether it is home, with my family or with Gargamel's. Now I'm quite used to having to pretend that … Continue reading Christmas Vacation…..Part 1
With the holidays approaching, and the fact that I knew I would be on the road for a few weeks, I decided that I needed to see Stephen one more time before things really got busy. He had been on his grind, makin all the money he possibly could and traveling all over the place. … Continue reading What a Gift…..
Every now and then, I come across a blog that I decide to follow. I lock them in for a number of reasons. Some are just fukkin hot! Whether it's the pics or the stories, those blogs give me an erection that is harder than AP Biology. Other writers have kept my interest with various … Continue reading Check Out Chronicles of a Downlow Brotha….
This time of year is particularly busy for most folks. I know for me, it's crunch time. The church is in her festive mode. The job is pullin on a nigga as well (yeah.....da preacher gotta work side gigs.....I ain't Jamaican, but I likes dat paper). And with everything that had been goin on with … Continue reading Been A MInute…..
Sometimes I wonder......"What da fukk am I doin???"Here I am, dealing with all of the issues of life, good and bad. I am a professional with three children, a rigorous career, a family that is still dealing with the loss of a father, and a wife that drives a nigga absolutely crazy. I'm not sure … Continue reading What da Fukk am I Doin?